SS31: God's Promises Never Fail

A couple of weeks ago, on the last Saturday morning of September, 14 lovely women gathered together at church. It was the first in person Common Ground women's gathering we've had in a really, really long time. We sat in a large circle in the shade under the trees, wearing our masks and keeping our distance, but coming near to each other and to God with our hearts. It was a precious time.

Helen and I both shared some thoughts with the group about HOPE and God's promises and I want to share them here to refresh our memories if we were there and to encourage those who weren't, as well. I don't think we can ever be reminded too often to hold on to hope.

Before going any further, I want to ask you the question Helen asked us that Saturday. 

What do you hope for? Right now. What are you hoping for? 


Many of us that day said we were hoping for the pandemic to end soon so students and teachers can return to in-class instruction. (And praise God! At least some younger kids and their teachers ARE heading back to school part time!) Others are hoping for a peaceful, successful Nov. 3 election (with or without a particular candidate in mind!) Some of us are hoping and praying for a loved one to be healed from a disease or an addiction. Many are hoping for community violence to cease. While honestly, in some circumstances, maybe we've even given up hope.

Like Helen shared with us, the truth is there were many people in the Bible who had lost their hope. Moses and the Israelite slaves, Esther upon hearing of Haman's plot to annihilate the Jews, the adulterous woman brought before Jesus in John chapter 8. Even Jesus' followers lost their hope after Jesus was crucified.  All of these people had no hope in their circumstances, but when they hoped and trusted in the Living Hope, our faithful God, He answered their pleas for help. Captives were freed, evil was defeated, sinners were forgiven, and disciples were found by a risen Jesus. What glory!

So what about us? Can we have hope for victory in these days?  Yes, because our hope is in our Faithful God, not in the situations we face or our abilities to face them.  Ps 62:5 "Let all that I am wait quietly before God, for my Hope is in Him ." We have hope for a blessed life because God keeps his promises!

But what about when it looks otherwise?

Sometimes we are sure we have put our hope in the Lord and we are sure God is going to answer our prayers. And then the unthinkable happens. A dream is crushed, a job is lost, a child goes astray, an illness is diagnosed, or a life is lost. Where did God go? What good did it do to hope?

The longer we walk with the Lord, the more we will find God is not a genie in a bottle we can command to grant our wishes. While God delights in answering our prayers with a resounding YES when a YES is what's best for us, throughout the Bible and throughout our lives there were and will be times when God doesn't answer in the way we or others hoped. 

Does this mean we give up hope? NOT AT ALL. Instead, it's a reminder to be sure we are hoping IN THE LORD rather than in a particular outcome or answer to prayer. There are plenty of blessings we can hope for, but what is sure and solid enough to stand on in every trial is God's Word and his promises. 

In the Bible God promises us so much.
His presence.
His strength.
His peace.
His grace.
His power.
Truth that will set us free.
Love that will never let us go.
That he is good all the time.
That he will never change.
That he knows the good plans he has for us.
That we are loved more than we will ever know.

Sure, we can still pray for specific outcomes and we may even get what we ask for! But if our hope is rooted in God's promises, we will be okay even when we don't get everything we ask for. And if we ask for God to give us what He knows is best, we can rest knowing he holds our future and our hope and his promises never fail.

Be encouraged today, Sisters. Cling to God's promises. Listen to this song and print out these verses. Tape them up where you can see them daily and be encouraged.

"Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm,
for God can be trusted to keep his promise." 
~Hebrews 10:23 (NLT)

Let's hold on to hope, Sisters. God is faithful.

Love,
Melissa

Seedling photo by Sushobhan Badhai on Unsplash


SS30: The Freedom of Submission

Hello, Sisters! I don't have a video to share with you this month, but I do have a study/discussion guide that goes along with chapter 8 of Celebration of Discipline on the topic of submission. There is so much good stuff in this chapter. Check out the study/discussion guide here and join one of our Sister Circles groups that is meeting this week. A group will be gathering tomorrow to have a Facebook Messenger chat at 10:00am and another group will gather for a Zoom call Friday evening at 8:00pm.

We would love to have you join us for one of our virtual meetings this week. Contact Melissa for information about how to find us or look for info in our Butler Women's Ministry facebook group.

SS29: Celebrating Solitude

The timing for this month's chapter couldn't be better! While we are all dealing with different situations caused by Shelter-In-Place orders due to attempts to stop the coronavirus, what's consistent is that we have all had many of our routines disrupted.

For some that means being surrounded by family members much more than usual. For others it means being alone much more than normal. In either case, things might feel extra hard right now! 

In this month's conversation about Solitude, I talked about how solitude (as a spiritual practice/discipline) is more than being alone. It's about being quiet with God. It's also about being present and honest with God and ourselves. Whether we are alone or with others, more than ever, we still have to make the choice to stay still and be quiet and listen.

For many of us, this can be hard, especially when our fears or hurts or insecurities are running strong right below the surface of our hearts. Whether we're alone or around others, sitting in stillness allows things to surface that we often want to drown out and ignore. So we dive into the internet in the name of knowing what's going on in the world or learning something new. We jump onto social media in the name of connecting with people. We find something else to do in the name of productivity. Whatever it takes to run away from uncomfortable things we don't want to acknowledge inside of us.

I'm NOT saying these things are always wrong. Not at all. But I am saying we at least need to be honest about whether or not it's something we're doing on a regular basis.

If you have learned how to sit still and are comfortable practicing listening to God, that's wonderful! Praise God! But if this idea is new to you, I hope you might watch the video and check out the study guide linked below. I'd love to invite you to consider how God might use the extra times of solitude OR the hidden moments of solitude you have to search for to bless your heart in his presence these days.

Link to Celebrating Solitude video.
Link to Celebrating Solitude study guide.
Link to Celebrating Solitude slides.

More than anything, let's take time to practice being quiet with God and let's allow what God does in our hearts to lead us to each other as we share our hearts with each other. Now more than ever.


Blessings,
Melissa