SS4: The Perfect Christmas

I can't wait for you to watch or listen to this next video study. In it I'll share with you:
  • Something I'd never noticed before about our tradition of lighting advent candles.
  • What's often missing in our understanding of Christmas.
  • How to have the Perfect Christmas.
I think you're gonna like it.



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Dear Lord Jesus,
Thank You for coming the way You did.
May your birth blow our minds today like the angels’ glory shocked the shepherds.
You are glorious, God.
May your glory shine brightly in the most unexpected places this Christmas,
even in our grief and our imperfections and our weaknesses.
May You, God of hope, fill us with all JOY and PEACE as we trust in You,
so that we may overflow with HOPE by the power of the Holy Spirit,
because nothing can ever separate us from the LOVE of JESUS CHRIST.
AMEN.

Merry Christmas, everyone!

SS3: Christmas Sisters (Elizabeth & Mary)

Hello, Sisters! I'm excited to share this week about two sisters we read about in Luke 1. Elizabeth and Mary were a gift to each other, both unexpectedly pregnant, because (as the angel Gabriel said in Luke 1:37) "nothing will be impossible with God." God blesses them together with the gifts of their company, confirmation of what God is doing in them, and courage to face their futures. Watch the video when you have a chance. It's a bit longer than last time, so if you would prefer to listen to the study instead of watching it, I'll post a link to the audio version of the study as well.


If it says the video is unavailable, you can also click here to watch the video in a new window. (Click on the video a couple of times when it opens.)

NEW FEATURE! Click here to access the audio version of the study if you want to listen instead of watch. (Let me know if this works or doesn't work for you!)

Here are the basic points I make in the study:

We aren’t meant to walk through life on our own. We need God AND other believers - maybe especially our sisters. We can offer each other the gifts of  Company, Confirmation, and Courage.

From Luke 1 (Written by a doctor!)
Elizabeth - old, childless.
Zechariah - also old. The angel Gabriel appeared to him, but he questioned God, and was sentenced to silence.
Elizabeth conceives and stays in seclusion for 5 months (with a husband who still can't speak!)
In Elizabeth's 6th month of pregnancy, Mary shows up at Elizabeth’s door! (Gabriel had appeared to Mary telling her she would be the mother of the Messiah. Mary believed him, and he told her Elizabeth was also pregnant. So she went there.) When she arrives, they both explode with greetings and rejoicing and praise!

God blessed Mary & Elizabeth with each other.
Company - They were together.
Confirmation - Elizabeth confirmed Mary’s miraculous pregnancy.
Courage - Mary declares God’s praise and that future generations will call her blessed.

How did this happen? 
Company - They took the risk of being together.
Confirmation - They were filled with the Holy Spirit.
Courage - They spoke truth to each other.

I need these blessings in my life. God provides them often through my sisters in Christ. (You probably need them, too!) Company, confirmation & courage are free & priceless gifts we can offer each other.

Here's my prayer for us this month.
Father God, help us be women who are safe to be with. Help us reach out to each other when we need each other. Help us make time to be together. Help us listen to You, Holy Spirit, so we can confirm what we see You doing in each other’s lives and help us to speak words of truth to each other that will fill us with the courage and encouragement we need. 
1 John 4:19, 21 (CSB) “We love because he first loved us.” “And we have this command from him: The one who loves God must also love his brother and sister.”
Do you have a story to share about a time when God used another sister (or brother) to bless you with their company, confirmation or courage?

Comment on the post, reply by email, or share in the Butler Women Facebook group. We'd love to hear your stories.

SS2: Find Your Thanks

(No video this week... Just a few words from my heart to yours.  Love, Melissa)

We may KNOW that God wants us to be thankful at all times. We may even WANT to be thankful at all times. But what about when we aren't? I don't think I know anyone who FEELS thankful all of the time, but we can practice giving thanks even when it doesn't happen naturally. (If we practice enough, it may start happening more naturally!) Print out a copy of the thanks below. Pray them out loud. Pray them silently. Pray them in your car and in the shower. Pray them over and over until they become as natural as breathing and you'll never find yourself without a word of thanks on your lips and in your heart.

We can ALWAYS be thankful.
When we look around and can’t find anything good,
we can close our eyes and say thanks to God for...


God’s Promises
Thank You for your Word and the promises it contains.
(Luke 1:45)


God’s Presence
Thank You for being here with me/us right now.
(Matthew 28:20)


God’s Power
Thank You for the strength You are giving me/us as I/we trust You.
(2 Peter 1:3)


God’s Peace
Thank You for your peace that is always available to me/us.
(John 14:27)


God’s Purposes
Thank You for always wanting and working out what is best for me/us.
(Romans 8:28)


God’s Perspective
I’m/We’re thankful You know everything and that nothing is a mystery to You.
(1 John 3:20)


God’s Provision
Thank You for providing everything I/we truly need.
(2 Corinthians 9:8)


God’s Protection
Thank You for watching over me/us.
(Psalm 121)

Click here for a printable version of these prayers.

What else can you think of that we can always thank God for? (The list could go on and on!)  Leave your thanks in the comments by clicking below where it says "Enter your comment..."

SS1: Thanksgiving

Hey, Sisters! Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays, and not just because of the food! I love having a day and a season devoted to thankfulness.

In recent years, you've probably seen a lot of people counting their blessings and posting on social media about what they're thankful for. Books have even been written about gratitude - and for good reason. Gratitude is extremely important for our emotional, mental, and spiritual health.

The more people talk about it, though, the easier it may be to dismiss it as something normal and ordinary. We might start trying to keep a list of things we're grateful for, but forget after a while. Life can be hard and it can be easier to complain or worry instead of being thankful.

In the video this week, I'm talking about Thanksgiving and we'll be looking at some of the different verses in the Bible that encourage us to be thankful. (There is much more that could be said about gratitude and thankfulness. I'm sure it will be a regular topic in studies to come!)

Click on the video below to view this week's study. If the video is unavailable, click here to view it in a different window.


Click here for a printable copy of the study guide.

After you watch the video, think about the questions asked at the end.
How do you practice thanksgiving and gratitude?
What’s your trigger this week?
What are you thanking God for this week?
Tell someone you’re thankful for them!
Leave some thoughts in the comments on this post and have a wonderful week. I'm so thankful for each one of you!!!

Much Love,
Melissa

Welcome to Sister Studies!


We want to study God's Word together, but with so many different schedules and responsibilities, it's practically impossible to find a time to gather in person that works for everyone. So how about we meet together - in person when we can and online when we can't? I'll host the online conversations here and we'll see what God does as we study His Word together, whether in person or online. What matters most is that we connect with God and keep trying to connect with each other. It's an experiment worth trying out, don't you think?

Welcome to SISTER STUDIES: Share together. Learn together. Pray together. Grow together.

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So are you in? Leave a comment and let us know what you think and what you hope to get out of our time here together.

Much Love,
Melissa